DO YOU THINK YOUR LIFE IS HARD? THEN WHY DON’T YOU TRY MAKING IT EASY FOR YOURSELF?
Life is HARD! Indeed it is… but you can change it, you can make your life easier. Just think of it, take some time and think… why does your life seem to be so hard???
THINGS AREN’T GOING THE WAY YOU WANT? NO EXCITEMENT IN YOUR LIFE? NO HAPPINESS?? OR DO YOU HAVE TO WORK HARD TO GET SOMETHING??
First of all, you don’t need to work hard for something you don’t like to do. Working hard for the right thing that you like makes sense, don’t you think? Working hard doesn’t make your life hard (example: you wish to be a doctor and you work hard behind it no matter what …you do it because it’s something you like and it makes you happy…cause you are trying to achieve a goal that you like…so working hard to become a doctor doesn’t make your life hard).
Then what do you think, what makes our life hard?? It may be because of the people and surroundings around us that makes it hard. IT’S BECAUSE WE CARE A LOT ABOUT WHAT PEOPLE MIGHT THINK. The things and comments that people pass on to you… THAT MAKES YOUR LIFE HARDER. It might be also because we don’t know how to deal with people OR it may be because no one is PERFECT. It may be because you are tired of your same daily routine, working hard daily with the same routine, getting tired daily and eventually making your life harder.
If it’s because of our same daily routine, then why don’t you try doing something new…like try learning a new skill (painting, cooking, self-defense or might be gardening). Ohh!! plz now don’t tell me that you don’t have time to do it. I think those are just excuses, there are 24 hours a day, you probably aren’t busy 24 hours, even if you are…then you try making a proper schedule for yourself in which you allow at least 2-3 hours to yourself so that you can enjoy and release all your daily stress in that 2-3 hours. Believe me, it will work.
If it is because of people’s comments, then just listen to their words, just take a short check on yourself (am I like what people describe me) if yes then try to improve yourself (isn’t it fun taking advantage of people who are trying to bring you down by improving ourselves 😉 ) and if no then just listen from one ear and remove it from other and ignore. You don’t need to please everyone. It is ok as long as you and your loved ones are happy. There is no harm in changing yourself, if it’s developing or improving your personality, don’t you think?
Always getting into fights? Cause you don’t know how to explain yourself or is it because you are short-tempered? Or is it because the people you are dealing with are short-tempered (e.g.: BOSS)? Then try developing your talking skills so that you can explain and express yourself properly. If you are short-tempered then try to control it, there are many ways on the internet through which you can overcome your short temper. It might take time for you to fix your temper but don’t worry …as long as you are working hard to fix it… then a man that’s one of the greatest achievements of your life.
And if it is because you have to deal with short-tempered people, then you can learn how to deal with difficult people through the internet. Not a big deal. You must take difficulties as a challenge for yourself and work on them.
There is always a solution to every problem, all you need to do is know what your problem is and work hard in finding its solution, and you can surely find a way out of it. Trust me, once you find a solution to your problem you would be happy and content with yourself. Come on guys, if you don’t work hard in making your hard life into an easy life….then stop complaining that your life is hard. NO ONE KNOWS WHATEVER YOU ARE GOING THROUGH… EXCEPT YOU AND YOUR LORD. So no matter how hard it is, cry in front of your LORD, seek his help…because Lord never DISAPPOINTS you and work hard behind finding solutions to your problems and also work hard for your dreams and whatever you like. NEVER GIVE UP!!!
No matter how hard your life is….as long as you are happy, your life is bound to look easier for you. You find your life difficult only when you are stressed out, sad, depressed or angry. Be happy, do things that make you happy (only good ones, not bad ones). Stay motivated, try reading and listening to things that make you happy and motivated.
IN THE END, WE ONLY REGRET THE CHANCES WE DIDN’T TAKE
So grab the opportunity and don’t regret it. Try realizing what makes your life hard and if you can improve it in some way or other… then work hard for it. FIGHTING!!!
